Responding to Relationships FAQ's

About the Program
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About the Program Questions

What is Responding to Relationships?

Responding to Relationships is a relationship skills experience designed for and offered to responder and military couples.

What are people saying about RTR?

Visit our Video Endorsment page to find out.

Who is it for?

Military/First Responder couples who are seriously dating, engaged, in a long-term partnership or married.

What will it be like?

RTR is a relationship skills experience that is designed for you and your partner to be shoulder to shoulder, knees to knees and learn about skills and strategies that help you have a more robust toolbox and stronger relationship with each other, on the job, with family and friends, and in community. While the RTR experience can be therapeutic, it's not counseling.

Will my partner and I be separated during the retreat?

No. The program does not include breakouts or small groups.  

Do I have to talk to anybody?

No. The goal is to talk with each other. However much (or little) you choose to share and/or socialize is up to you.

What is Date Night?

Saturday night, you’ll have time for a night out (or night in) with your partner. For more details and “Date Night” ideas, click here.

What topics will be covered?

The program includes over a dozen powerful relationship topics such as: 

  • Communication skills
  • Personality types
  • Types of Intimacy
  • Expectations
  • Boundaries
Will onsite counselors be available?

Yes. A licensed counselor and a chaplain will be available on both Saturday and Sunday during the retreat. Instructions for how to engage will be provided in the retreat program.

Before You Register Questions

How do we know if we are eligible to attend?

You must both be 18 years or older and one person in the partnership must be military (All U.S. military personnel and veterans) or an emergency responder.

What if we're not married?

RTR is offered to eligible couples who are seriously dating, engaged, in a long-term partnership, married. 

How do I register?

Easy! Visit the website and choose an RTR event. Click on the Register Now button and complete the Interest Form. Upon receipt of your completed interest form, a CRE team member will reach out to you to discuss event details and next steps. ·

Where is it?

All RTR events take place at Denver Inverness Hotel at 200 Inverness Dr W, Englewood, CO 80112.

How much does it cost?

Responding to Relationships is offered to eligible participants at no cost. The RTR experiences, content, and support is valued at over $2200 per couple.

What are my out-of-pocket costs?

RTR participants are responsible for cost of transportation to and from event + Saturday night “Date Night” outing (optional – planned by and paid for by participants). When you check-in to the hotel for the retreat, they will place a $50/night hold on your credit card for incidentals.

Can we bring friends?

Please direct couples to the Responding to Relationships web page and encourage them to register.

What do I wear?

Colorado casual. Hotel Ballrooms are often chilly so please plan accordingly.

What’s the food situation?

Most meals are included with the program experience. The following meals/times are provided at the weekend retreat: Friday Night- desserts and coffee, Saturday breakfast and lunch, Sunday breakfast. The following meals are NOT provided: Saturday “Date Night”.

Is alcohol served with RTR meals?

While alcohol is not included in any of the RTR provided meals, you are welcome to visit the hotel restaurant, Borealis, where drinks may be purchased.

How do you accommodate special needs?
  • Dietary – while we do not offer customized menu options, we do offer a variety of food choices to accommodate for food sensitivities. Adults and individuals who have dietary restrictions, are encouraged to bring safe food options as a backup. You may always reach out to your a CRE team member to share additional details if needed.
  • Physical – the hotel has 5 ADA guest rooms (based on availability).
  • Emotional support vs service animals – per local laws, service animals can stay at no charge. Emotional support – please contact the hotel directly 303.365.1234.
What if I have to cancel?

If you need to cancel or reschedule, please contact a CRE team member with as much notice as possible prior to the event date.

How do I update my information?

Contact a CRE team member. Don’t know who that is? Call the office, and our amazing team can help you 720.488.8888.

How will RTR communicate with me?

The RTR team uses email and text for important communication, details, and updates.

General Questions

How do I share this with other couples and people in my agency/base?

Responding to Relationships is a relationships skills experience designed for and offered to responders and military couples. We have created a flyer for you to forward and share with your community Click to download.

Please email info@myrelationshipcenter.org with additional questions.

Is this a faith-based program?

Responding to Relationships is a secular, skills-based program.

Can I get training hours for this?

Certificates of completion are available. Please contact a CRE team member for details.