Training for Togetherness

Responding to Relationships is a customized event series tailored to bring transformative relationship skills to active duty military, veterans, emergency responders and their partners. Each five-star retreat series is led by facilitators with first-hand experience in the field. All couples are welcome and invited to learn in an engaging, safe environment as they dedicate intentional time to one another.

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The RTR Experience - Event Agenda

Kickoff Event

Kickoff Event 6pm - 9pm

Arrive at the hotel and get ready to enjoy a fun date night. Registration opens at 5:00 PM. Event begins with in-person surveys followed by food trucks, content, and a fun activity hosted by Gallery on the Go.

 

Childcare

Hours reflect when you may start dropping off your children and the time that childcare closes. Thank you for picking up your children promptly.

  • 5:30 PM - 9:00 PM
  • Children will be served dinner while in childcare.

Retreat Weekend

Friday Night Registration Opens at 5pm, Event 7pm-9pm

Check into the hotel and get ready to enjoy the weekend. Registration opens at 5:00 PM. Event begins at 7:00 PM. Dive into content as you enjoy coffee and dessert.

Saturday 9am - 4pm

Begin day 2 with new skills-based learning and discover practical ways to connect with your partner. Explore content themes such as:

  • Strategies for meeting and exceeding expectations.
  • Best practices to prevent communication breakdowns.
  • Benefits of setting boundaries.
  • Breakfast is served for both participants and children participating in the childcare programming in the Ballroom from 7:30 - 8:45 AM

Saturday Night Date Night

A personalized date night for you by you! Enjoy the night with our activity suggestions or create your own experience. Make it an evening you won’t soon forget.

Sunday 9am - 12pm

There is still plenty to experience as the series comes to an end. Enjoy breakfast together as you begin the final day of the retreat. We’ll save our favorite content to close out the weekend and say goodbye with a final “thank you” gift.

  • Breakfast is served for both participants and children participating in the childcare programming in the Ballroom from 7:30 - 8:45 AM

Childcare

Hours reflect when you may start dropping off your children and the time that childcare closes. Thank you for picking up your children promptly.

  • Friday Night: 6:00 PM - 9:00 PM
  • Saturday: 8:30 AM - 4:30 PM
    • Children will be served lunch while in childcare
  • Saturday Night (Date Night): 6:00 PM - 10:00 PM
    • Children will be served dinner while in childcare

The Fine Print

Cost
Cost

The RTR experience is valued at over $2,200 per couple. As a federally funded program we are able to provide the content, experience and support for FREE.

Attendance
Attendance

Couples are asked to engage in the pre-registration process and attend all series sessions – kickoff and full retreat included. Select the series that best fits your schedule.

Childcare
Childcare

Limited childcare is available on a first come first-serve basis for both kickoff and our retreat - via Sitters with a Purpose.

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What Our Couples are Saying

Was great. Kept the topic short and gave time to implement scenarios in our marriage.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Military
Loved being able to have a "neutral zone" to reflect and communicate our relationship
January 15, 2023
Participant - Emergency Responder
Excellent content, just too short to address some of the more significant issues in the relationship based on trauma, and lack of communication.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Military
A fun weekend learning great skills that could be applied to all sorts of relationships - spouse, family, friends, coworkers. I think everyone could benefit from this program.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Veteran
My husband and I felt like we were in a good place prior to attendance, but now I feel extremely confident and excited for the future knowing we have the tools to navigate anything.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Emergency Responder
Fun, engaging, relatable. Appreciate the facilitators being real, vulnerable, showing real life situations.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Veteran
It was great, engaging, so useful! Can we do it again? An awesome idea would be a "reunion" weekend see how it's going.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Emergency Responder
Excellent and accessible content. Great accommodations. The childcare is an amazing benefit and I love that they are doing more than just watching movies in there! Overall, this is very well thought out and executed and satisfies a need that we all have.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Emergency Responder
Provided the time, space, and skills to address the issues in our relationship that were making us want to part ways! We are now motivated to make it work.
January 15, 2023
Participant
Excellent instruction and topics. Real life applications and time to put it into practice. I loved all the swag that we got. The food and hotel were awesome. I am going to tell everyone I know about this.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Civilian
We came into this with some hesitations, didn't want it to be like a "couples' counselor" and we loved it. We hope to put these tools we've learned into action in our everyday lives.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Emergency Responder
Fun way to bond and connect!
January 15, 2023
Participant - Civilian
This was such as incredible fulfilling experience. I need this every 3 years as a refresher! It was so great connecting and thinking a different way and learning about my spouse.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Civilian
I feel that this is all great information for anyone in the first responder field.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Emergency Responder
This program was amazing! It got my husband and I speaking in ways that we never have in all 11+ years of marriage! I was pleasantly surprised that I took away so much that I can apply to parenting as well! Thanks RTR
January 15, 2023
Participant - Emergency Responder
The tools that we have been given would be beneficial in every marriage. This was great and feel blessed to have been able to take a part in it. I appreciate everyone involved. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. You and the program will forever be in our prayers.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Civilian
Amazing and powerful experience giving tools my partner and I we have not learned before.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Civilian
This is an excellent opportunity for couples to enforce their love. Learning more ways of love language. Knowing the difference between [personality styles] was a key for me to understand my husband's priorities.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Civilian
Program was amazing. Took effort to ensure we were comfortable.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Veteran
I think the program was truly fulfilling and well worth the time commitment. We were given so many helpful tools that I'm excited to use.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Civilian
Gives you tools to help understand your partner, how and why they feel, what they do and how to communicate with them.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Emergency Responder
This experience was incredible. Everything was taken care of for us so we could spend this weekend focusing on and connecting with each other. I feel each "knees to knees" brought to light issues/topics of discussion in our relationship that needed to be addressed. Thank you so much.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Emergency Responder
My wife and I really enjoyed the program. The weekend was fun, engaging with lot of practical no-nonsense actionable ways to improve your relationships. After 10 years of marriage, we have an even deeper understanding of each other's needs, communication styles and languages.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Emergency Responder
We thoroughly enjoyed the presentations of the material and the facilitators using humor. The real-life honesty and examples of their lives made them relatable and made the material "stick" better. We have a good relationship coming into this, but this was just what we needed to grow in our relationship and have a deeper connection.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Veteran
We had a wonderful weekend. The facilitators were amazing! We learned so many things that we will use daily. Thank you
January 15, 2023
Participant - Civilian
We received amazing tools and tactics how to better understand each other.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Civilian
We came into this weekend separated. We leave connected and hopeful. Thank you
January 15, 2023
Participant - Civilian
Great program and makes a reconnection with your loved one. Also helps understand and promote what is needed in the relationship.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Emergency Responder
I have learned critical skills during this program that will aid me in the future. I loved the structure of lesson, activity, then knees to knees. It was engaging and thought provoking.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Emergency Responder
Lauren is amazing!!!
January 15, 2023
Participant - Military
From the first day to the last second of the final day I learned a lot. This program has helped me understand my partner in ways I never thought of.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Military
Lauren was awesome, I had hoped she would speak more. [The co-facilitators] were hard to relate to. I did gain skills in the form of communication danger signs.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Military
RTR helped us understand each other better and show us some reasons for why we are so different and have trouble communicating. Hopefully we can utilize the skills we learned to improve our conflict resolving.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Civilian
Me and my partner always knew we were operating on different wavelengths, and the way we showed our love was not the same but we didn't know what or why. Responding to relationships helped both of us understand how we love and how we operate in our marriage.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Military
...Excellent facilitators that were real, vulnerable and enjoyable to be around and listen to.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Emergency Responder
What an amazing weekend! I feel like the skills/tools I gained will truly help my partner and I achieve the relationship we always dreamed of - one where we both win and thrive facing life challenges together, as a team.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Civilian
From childcare to relationship advice everything was amazing. I came here as a save attempt due to the lack of communication. Divorce was our follow up if this wasn't a success. But because now I understand my partner, we should never get there again.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Military
Absolutely wonderful opportunity to reconnect with my wife in a beautiful facility with awesome facilitators and delicious meals. This was an absolute home run experience. Thank you for this opportunity.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Emergency Responder
This program was so much more fun and effective than I expected. The exercises and delivery really helped us cement the concepts experientially. The facilitators were amazing and kept my attention the entire weekend. It was a 5-star experience!
January 15, 2023
Participant - Civilian
This course/workshop should be required in responder academies as part of the curriculum! All of the activities and the knees to knees were extremely helpful and we learned lots of new skills and tools to use in our marriage.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Civilian
Amazing experience and something I would never had expected. The people, from top to bottom, are doing great work and I hope this type of learning experience can be shown to more people. This aspect of life is so hard to learn about alone without judgment and stigmas that RTR is fulfilling that lack of knowledge of ourselves and others.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Civilian
Exceeded my expectations. More than I expected. Successfully distilled complex topic into understandable and simple terms with techniques that are easy to remember and apply in daily life.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Military
I learned some valuable tools to help keep prioritizing my marriage to push through the hard times and be more appreciative of the good.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Emergency Responder
The facilitators are clearly invested in positive outcomes for the participants I am full of gratitude for you Lauren, Sammie, and Dave. Thank you!
January 15, 2023
Participant - Emergency Responder
This weekend was amazing. It forced my husband and I to carve out time we know we need but never make time for. We were able to talk about issues that feel like nagging in everyday life but normal during this retreat.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Civilian
Excellent program! This was such an incredible experience for my wife and me. We would never had made time to sit down and have these meaningful and productive conversations about our marriage. All of the tools we learned during this weekend will continue to support us for the rest of our lives. Having the whole thing paid for and getting a weekend away was a huge bonus and made the experience much better. Thank you!
January 15, 2023
Participant - Emergency Responder
An excellent retreat full of great education. Applicable and meaningful tools. would definitely recommend and attend again. Reconnection for our marriage we didn't know we needed.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Emergency Responder
Learning all the different tools helped give me such a better understanding of who I am and what I want and need from my partner and vice versa. These tools will help me with all my other relationships.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Veteran
A great opportunity to improve your relationship! Even if you think things are great in your marriage.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Emergency Responder
I loved attending the retreat. It was great quality time. We were afforded a wealth of tools that helped us understand each other better. There were a lot of "ohhh" lightbulb moments.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Civilian
Very beneficial. The instructors were energetic, knowledgable, and passionate. Their personal stories give an insight that cannot be matched. I wish I would have been introduced to a program like this at the beginning of my marriage over 20 years ago.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Emergency Responder
I I had this 20 years ago, my marriage would be different.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Emergency Responder
Gave us the tools to have meaningful conversations. Opened us up.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Veteran
Truly great to learn with my spouse in an intentional and digestible/accessible and then applicable way. Was awesome to have someone else provide logistics solutions--childcare, meals, breaks, "figets" --very well thought our and executed!
January 15, 2023
Participant - Civilian
Thank you for providing the space and time to equip us with the tools to become successful in our marriage.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Military
Great overall program. Great tools and techniques for successful relationship.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Veteran
My wife and i have been married for 17 years. As a military family our challenges, struggles, and daily norms are not common to the rest of society. The RTR curriculum focused on issues that my wife and I struggle. The retreat was life changing because it allowed us to discuss those uncomfortable conversations.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Military
great material / condensed / easy to digest
January 15, 2023
Participant - Military
Grade = A
January 15, 2023
Participant - Emergency Responder
It was very apparent that the organizers and presenters genuinely care about helping people. This was a well-organized event.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Emergency Responder
Thank you so much for offering this weekend to us... and for free! My husband and I are both cops and have been feeling the pressure of work and major changes on the job recently. so, this weekend was nice to get away from the stress of that. It was very nice to focus on us and our relationship. Being around other people/couples experiencing the same thing was encouraging as well. The free childcare was amazing too. Thank you.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Emergency Responder
RTR has been great for us. It allowed us to have conversations that would have otherwise never happened. We were able to clearly state what we're expecting from our marriage and give us a language to help with that. I'm so grateful for this opportunity.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Civilian
This program has given us some fantastic tools to help to maintain and improve our relationship. it also opened our eyes to somethings we have been doing poorly but also well. I think that this will definitely help improve our relationship.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Veteran
I needed this. the material given, talks, and tools will stay with me for life. We will use this time in our life with family, friends, and work forever. THANK YOU. This should be a required class before marriage. We would have much more happier people in the world!!!
January 15, 2023
Participant - Civilian
Helped us discover new techniques for improving our family.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Emergency Responder
The opportunity to have uninterrupted and meaningful conversations just as a couple was powerful and so refreshing.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Civilian
Provided several useful takeaways that we can incorporate into our daily lives. Learned better ways of modeling communication to our children.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Emergency Responder
I feel that this is a good program - especially for couples on the fence the specific and measurable skills learned this weekend will be very helpful in creating a healthy environment at home and in our family.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Emergency Responder
RTR was an amazing experience! Love how it is built for all fire, police, ems, and veterans. Definitely make the experience more enjoyable being around the same type of people.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Civilian
We had a really great time and got some new tools for our toolbox. Kids had a great time too.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Civilian
This weekend was amazing! So many new tools and coping mechanisms were learned and I'm excited to use them! Kids had a blast!
January 15, 2023
Participant - Emergency Responder
Wonderful experience, gained lots of tools to communicate with my partner.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Emergency Responder
Loved being open with my partner, having those heart to heart conversations.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Emergency Responder
Super fun and interesting content. You guys are funny!
January 15, 2023
Participant - Emergency Responder
More than just a skills workshop...we relate to the staff and to the other participants made us feel less alone in our struggles.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Veteran
Great event all around with excellent tools to put in my marriage tool bucket!
January 15, 2023
Participant - Military
We have been married for 22 years. We have been to past marriage conferences (early in marriage) and this was a great refresher. There is great need in society for education like this (especially in emergency responder relationships). This content should be offered and taught in departments. When you support the primary support system of responders, you improve the longevity of their response careers; their wives and the lives of those they love.
January 15, 2023
Participant - Emergency Responder
Very informative for couples that need it.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Military
Very valuable and engaging. Really appreciate the practical tools.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
A marriage workshop on communication for military and first responders only.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
We (my husband and I) are fortunate to see we are using a lot of these techniques already, but didn't realize it. Knowing the details and "whys" as to how we are the way we are was like a light bulb coming on. The program reaffirmed why we need to continue approaching our communication in a healthy way, especially for our children.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
This program was helpful! I am hopeful that this program will help progress my marriage in a positive direction.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Military
Great program! Really helpful to myself, my wife, and my daughter too. The whole family! Would recommend to family and friends. Thank you again for this wonderful time and experience.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Military
The [personality] review was the most helpful for me to understand why my husband and me are different. But in a healthy way. I loved it! Learning break patterns is so important if one gear isn't working it effects the whole system.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Military
Amazing tools to navigate marriage.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
This was a great chance to unplug and reconnect with each other while improving our relationship skills.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Great program! Excellent, science base tools that I feel will help give me the tools and knowledge to help be a better spouse.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Helped me understand my wife more, of how she communicates, her personality, then love her well.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Military
The program pointed out the most important pieces of information that we lack in our marriage. Every information was educational, and I believe will be helpful to the success of our marriage and relationship.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Military
Learning about individual differences and how to work through them and accept each other to reach the end goal. A happy and fulfilling marriage. All the speakers were phenomenal! Thank you for providing quality care for our kids too and allow us time to nurture our relationships!
November 13, 2022
Participant - Military
It was nice to get away with my partner and to learn new skills. It was also helpful to see that we aren't the only ones who struggle with communication and expectations. I feel more hopeful that we'll be okay.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Great experience, some new tools to use in the future. Opens the door for communication. We have been married 32 years and still are learning about each other and the ways we need to communicate effectively.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Provides useful tools to help relationships succeed.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Military
This was a great chance to unplug and reconnect with each other while improving our relationship skills.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Military
The program was amazing, I had fun, and learned new skills to help me be a better husband and father.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Military
Responding to Relationships was fun, eye opening, and definitely brought us closer together. It brought us to realization about some of our flaws and what we can do better. It gave us some tools and techniques to use in the future.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Military
Amazing program to bring couples back together and learn how to move together in the future.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
I was pleasantly surprised at the quality of information that was given throughout the workshop. It was fun, engaging, and beneficial for our marriage.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Extremely helpful, several tools were given and taught that will help my marriage improve moving forward
November 13, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Excellent. Refreshing topics, almost a revival for our love. Presented tools to use in our marriage going forward.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Military
I have never thought this deep into relationships before and always chose either my daughter or work over hers.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Military
This program is amazing. The amount of information and tools we gathered will only allow us to grow deeper together. .
November 13, 2022
Participant - Military
Awesome presentations. So helpful to get more items to help my relationship be better.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Great content with a lot of ways to implement strategies for a better relationship.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
A great class for all couples at any stage of their relationship. Great skills for the whole family.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Life changing experience learning my partner over again. Definitely an eye-opening humbling experience. I learned tools that will not only better my relationship w/not only partner, but friends and family as well. I intend to apply those tools to my everyday life moving forward this saved our relationship.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
The facilitators made the retreat fun and entertaining and kept us engaged.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Military
It was helpful overall, can't hurt to try it out.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Military
This has really helped us connect the missing dots we were needing to connect the lines in our toolbox. We have better ways to handle tough situations, communication better, and love greater.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Military
This was a great program. For me helped us focus on what's important in our marriage and how to handle issues and struggles that may arrive.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Military
Great way to learn new tools for a good marriage and learn more about your partner to keep them happy and loved.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
It was beneficial. I do think some topics we took too much time going over and I started to lose focus
November 13, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Much like keeping a car running smoothly it's better to keep things tuned up before it begins having problems.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Thank you. Great experience. Good tools for continuing to improve relationships and connecting at home.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Great content!! Highly recommend to other military couples. Wish we had discovered earlier.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Military
Time so well spent! We learned valuable skills and discovered several mistakes in our past. That could have been avoided.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Military
Amazing course to teach the basics that are the fundamentals to having a successful/sustainable relationships.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Military
Excellent program and identified with 1st responders' needs! The atmosphere was organized and comfortable.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Breaking down the different parts of how we relate, how we communicate, and the ways we don't communicate. We are leaving with some real tools to help us navigate our marriage, deal with surprises, and understand the person we are married to .
November 13, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Even after 30+ years of marriage, we reconnected and recharged our marriage - it's never too late and every marriage will benefit no matter how long the relationship has lasted.
November 13, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
The skills and tools taught in the RTR program should be a requirement for every couple! This program is exceptional, and I highly recommend it to every First Responder couple, regardless of their marriage condition (ie great or struggling) Thank you to all the RTR staff!
November 13, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
I loved the reality that was put into this talk.
November 10, 2022
Participant - Military
I loved getting to understand my husband better and why he feels the way he does/his love language/communication style.
August 02, 2022
Participant - Civilian
This is a must do retreat for married or engaged couples. The skills taught were comprehensive but clear. Would not have changed or traded this experience for anything.
August 02, 2022
Participant - Military
Very basic but nice as a refresher or a beginner. It was too cold in the banquet room. More variety of food/beverage choices would have been nice.
August 02, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
It's BOMB! We had a ton of fun. The tools are useful. It's not a huge group, which is great. But it's big enough that you don't have to talk to anyone but your partner (and we so appreciated that permission the first night) 10/10 would recommend and attend again. The perfect blend of chill and fun (I loved the fidgets on the table and all the interactive activities), but also so meaningful and helpful. AND FREE!
August 02, 2022
Participant - Civilian
Good overall. Allowed self-perspective along with understanding partners. How to communicate better and the need to open things up for discussion. How to better understand the root of the problem.
August 02, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Allowed time for my partner and I to focus on each other away from all other responsibilities and gave us tools to continue it at home. Speakers were amazing genuine people who kept us engaged the whole time
August 02, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Life changing. I believe this retreat is a turning point in our relationship. Can't recommend this highly enough. Just do it and invest in your future!
August 02, 2022
Participant - Civilian
Worth every minute, learned so much and have so much easy useful information to take away.
August 02, 2022
Participant - Military
Allowed time for my partner and I to focus on each other away from all other responsibilities and gave us tools to continue it at home. Speakers were amazing genuine people who kept us engaged the whole time
August 02, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Life changing. I believe this retreat is a turning point in our relationship. Can't recommend this highly enough. Just do it and invest in your future!
August 02, 2022
Participant - Civilian
It was amazing! The speakers were phenomenal. They were all amazing speakers and know how to engage us.
August 02, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Program really helped with learning how to communicate with my partner. Having the last two days just my partner and I really helped us re-connect.
August 02, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
I love learning tools and strategies to better our relationship. Life will always throw you curve balls and we've committed together, so having these strategies will help us continue to grow.
August 02, 2022
Participant - Civilian
RTR made sure that we got the most out of the program by setting expectations from the very beginning. Starting with the commitment call and going into the kickoff event. Providing childcare made this retreat possible as without it. We would not have been able to attend. The hotel stay was a refreshing change of environment and allowed us the opportunity to reconnect.
August 02, 2022
Participant - Civilian
I'm amazed at how much of the relationship is about perception and understanding that just because it means something to me does not mean it is important to my partner and not acknowledge it causes problems.
August 02, 2022
Participant - Veteran
Very good tools to take home and use for day to day.
August 02, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
This was an engaging, fun, and informational retreat! Learning new things is an invaluable tool for my relationship. The speakers were amazing and real. The examples were great and tangible. We had a great weekend!
August 02, 2022
Participant - Civilian
Overall, it was an excellent experience, and I would highly recommend.
August 02, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Worthwhile- spent time w/ spouse is always important. A chance to get away from interruptions of work.
August 02, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Good perspective to begin the conversations and know it changes as we change.
August 02, 2022
Participant - Civilian
I loved getting to understand my husband better and why he feels the way he does/his love language/communication style.
August 02, 2022
Participant - Civilian
Great opportunity to refocus and connect with spouse.
August 02, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
After going to many relationship series and retreats this one is by far the best. Gave many tools to use to better our relationship.
August 02, 2022
Participant - Military
An amazing opportunity to step to the side of life's demands and focus on the greatest challenge: your partner. Being given the tools to turn your relationship into the greatest reward is indescribable. Thank you to Jonathan, David, Daniel and Sammy and to all the team who gave us this gift!
August 02, 2022
Participant - Military
Loved the focused time for our relationship! Having food and hotel provided made this possible and less stressful.
August 02, 2022
Participant - Civilian
Instructors delivered messages in an engaging and informational, relatable level for everyone involved.
August 02, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
This program was an excellent introduction to tools and skills to have a more positive life experience with my partner. Would love to be able to have a follow-on event a year or so down the road to re-visit these skills.
August 02, 2022
Participant - Veteran
I honestly never could have imagined this experience would be as awesome as it was. I truly felt as if the entire experience was too good to be true. Everything was top notch from initial communication to completion.
August 02, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
I was very apprehensive when my wife told me about this retreat. When I think of a retreat, I automatically assume some type of kumbaya type of weekend. I thoroughly enjoyed every aspect of the weekend and the series. The presenters did an amazing job keeping is engaged and making the information/concepts relevant.
August 02, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
The program gave us excellent tools to know ourselves and our partners and tools to better communicate with each other and work to strengthen our relationship.
August 02, 2022
Participant - Civilian
I'm so glad that we're doing this-learning these skills-now rather than once we need them. We're learning to be intentional about the things that used to come naturally before we settled down. I really loved all of the staff and hope to keep up with the program.
August 02, 2022
Participant - Civilian
We truly value and appreciate the opportunity to connect as couple. To sweep the rocks away, learn new ways of communicating and commit to a strong future as a first responder couple.
August 02, 2022
Participant - Civilian
Great, focused time with my partner!
August 02, 2022
Participant - Civilian
Knees to knees opportunity are such an easy yet underrated opportunity to meaningfully and intimately connect with your partner, and this retreat provided a great stage for those opportunities.
August 02, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Great resources and staff to keep you engaged all weekend. Topics were on point and designed for couples. Related discussions for 1st responder/military scenarios.
August 02, 2022
Participant - Civilian
This program took my marriage from a really stuck and stressful place and brought it to a place of understanding and awareness. I feel like these tools are going to change things and make them better.
August 02, 2022
Participant - Military
Overall, was a good reminder of healthy relationship foundations; loved having time with each other that was uninterrupted.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
A beautiful weekend spent understanding my partner and investing in our marriage!
May 15, 2022
Participant - Civilian
Eye opening experience. Learned great new ways to hear and communicate better with my wife.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Military
Amazing opportunity for 1st responders! gained good tools to use in our relationship.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Civilian
Great reminder of the tools to use for success and relearning to put the work in to make another 13 years.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
This program provided us with tools to enhance our marriage. We had a basic understanding of these tools, but now we truly understand how to use them.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Military
Eye opening! This weekend not only reconnect us, but explained so much to help with current struggles in our relationships to rocket towards a better future for our marriage and family.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Civilian
RTR gave us practical tools and skills to "fight" respectfully and talk through problems. It opened our eyes to certain situations each of us walk through daily and how the other feels and processes.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Civilian
Full of practical real world take aways that can truly change the dynamic of your marriage. Wish we had learned this years ago.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Through this retreat, I learned that my marriage wasn't perfect. But I gained a lot of tools to enjoy even little mistakes.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Military
Found it fantastic - given tools worth while - would come back in a heart beat to continue to learn and practice and share with others. THANK YOU.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Civilian
Great location, loved that kids were taken care of, some sessions too long, need more breaks.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Veteran
This was a great experience! It was refreshing to take time for our marriage and learn about each other and have the opportunity to grow as a married couple.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Eye opening. I enjoyed having fun with my husband and learning new things. We met some great people we can connect with. I feel a lot lighter and not so heavy. Truly a great experience. I have been with my partner for 15 years and this was the first time I feel we understand each other.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Civilian
Really enjoyed the entire experience - staff was wonderful and engaging throughout. Appreciate the tools and tangible examples for how to navigate our relationship.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Military
This was a great program. My husband and I learned a lot. Thank you!
May 15, 2022
Participant - Civilian
I came in not sure how to approach conversation and literally all subjects were opened and easily shown in ways to ease into a convo. I will use all tools for years to come.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Civilian
Fantastic value: time together, nice hotel, great outdoor, good food - couldn't have done this without the childcare option! Thank you for recognizing that it's hard for shift workers to get childcare to begin with and taking that off our plate so we can work on our relationship.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
A very grounding experience that supplied tools for the betterment of our relationship in the future.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Military
The content and tools were spot on to first responders and their partners!!
May 15, 2022
Participant - Civilian
RTR was a fun and engaging experience. The series explained what a healthy relationship looks like, but most importantly it provides you with the tools to achieve a healthy relationship.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Military
I definitely feel Sunday was the best day. I feel like doing exercises are so beneficial.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Civilian
Very good start to helping with first responder relationships.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
This was such a wonderful retreat! I learned many tools to help our marriage thrive and grow. We have a lot of takeaways and will be using many of the tools learned!
May 15, 2022
Participant - Civilian
The program really opened my eyes to the possibility of having a relationship with healthy and productive communication.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Civilian
This weekend has been amazing to get away with the family and knowing the kids are in good hands.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
We have been married for 21 years. So often, we have friends, family, and co-workers look to us and say how much they envy our relationship and commitment to each other. What they don't realize is how hard it actually is. Marriage takes work and strong communication and understanding of each other. I'm thankful we had the opportunity to engage with RTR. We have opened up so many aspects of our marriage that neither of us realized were having a negative impact. Thank you for all the tools, strategies, and most importantly the time you gave us TOGETHER to work through so much. This service is much appreciated.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Civilian
RTR allowed us and helped us reconnect and gave us the tools to have a healthier relationship moving forward. I went from worrying my marriage would end to having significant hope and confidence.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Very good program! Speakers are great!
May 15, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Curriculum/information was good, but we needed a little more interaction and standing breaks to really take it all in.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Civilian
This was a very constructive program to help us help ourselves in our everyday life.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
I've been to several marriage seminars and this by far is my favorite. The material is approachable and I resonate with it much more than other programs. It's unique for other programs in a way that appealed to me. I like that this program was for military and first responders.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Military
This was great.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Attending to RTR opened my eyes to the important things in our marriage, home, and ourselves. It showed me I love my husband and our being together. We have just had some ricks and moments of silence get in the way...knowing and learning how my spouse receives love and appreciation is different than me. I can work on that.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Veteran
Unexpected. Lots of tools for my tool box. New/important focus of values.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Brought lots of things to light for me as someone who is emotionally unavailable from many aspects.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Military
This program has been a great opportunity to reconnect as a couple and learn new skills to make our relationship stronger.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Incredible opportunity to learn valuable forever skills to help facilitate better, more meaningful communication in our marriage.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
I feel like this retreat has refreshed our relationship and given us new tools and fresh hope for the future.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Civilian
Speakers were engaging. The sharing of experiences was educating and made it more relatable. The materials were engaging and made it easy to participate and get a better understanding. Great program.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
The skills we learned are super valuable to our marriage. We are inspired to continue putting the skills into practice and leave a legacy of love for our children!
May 15, 2022
Participant - Civilian
Needed for all relationships, new or old, with or without issues. Amazing staff, knowledge, gifts, and just overall amazing experience.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Civilian
This was an extremely educational and valuable weekend full of useful information that we will be able to use instantly and for years to come.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Veteran
Great reminder after 25 years of marriage to refocus on each other's needs and desires in order to grow the partnership together. "Happy spouse, happy house" takes both of you working in tandem.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
The program had a lot of surprising facts, and has provided me with tips and tricks to not only help my marriage but also the relationship I have with my children.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Civilian
Incredible experience. It has given us tools to be successful as we continue to repair and improve our marriage. I am recommending this to my entire crew.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
We were able to communicate in a judgement free way.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Civilian
During the retreat, we were able to find and give forgiveness and find a path forward. The activities varied, and I HIGHLY recommend this program to EVERYONE!
May 15, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Amazing program! Has given us the tools to have a fulfilling and loving marriage.
May 15, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Me and my wife argue a lot about small things - the skills that we learned [at the retreat] were amazing.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Veteran
I really appreciated the vulnerability of the presenters in sharing stories from their lives.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Military
This was an incredible experience that has set my husband and I up for success. We are so excited to focus more in each other.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Civilian
Very helpful. Looking forward to doing the hard work.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Learned many great tools to see how and where we want our relationship to go.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Military
It was a fun and eye-opening experience that provided us with the skills that we can use at home.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Civilian
This was very good information - very thorough. It was presented very well, and the support team has been awesome. Thank you for all you do.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Excellent program. It was a great opportunity to learn some new tools and to re-connect.
March 20, 2022
Participant
I really enjoyed the time spent on the retreat. It was so helpful to learn skills and also see how they effect our lives when done correctly vs. incorrectly.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Great program to learn how to spend more time with my wife and how to treat her the way that speaks to her most.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Civilian
Overall, the program was excellent. I enjoyed the content, and I was able to take away some skills that I can use to strengthen our relationship.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Military
[One of the activities] started out very uncomfortable. I tend to evade uncomfortable and bow out when I feel like my conversation/conflict/problem will not have resolution. [The activity] gave me an opportunity to be vulnerable and face the difficult conversations.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Civilian
Definitely necessary information for everyone! Incorporated a lot of good knowledge into 2 short days.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
The staff was so nice and willing to answer any question that was asked. I learned so many things that I didn't know before that I will be using for the rest of my life. I will be referring anyone I can to this program.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Veteran
Topics that are covered during this event are useful. But classes are boring and lengthy. I wish participants were more involved actively and had opportunity to meet and socialize with other families/couples. It was too much lecturing.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Military
Great things to practice. I had little knowledge of many tools.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
This weekend allowed us to discover more about one another and discuss tough topics in a safe and supportive space.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Civilian
A great reminder to put my priorities back on my relationship as opposed to work or other competing priorities.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Military
Outstanding marriage rejuvenation through leaning and communication.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
After a busy season of life we really appreciated carving out the time especially with childcare to be together. As a military family with no family close by, childcare means everything!
March 20, 2022
Participant - Military
Great experience! Really opened our eyes to recognize the areas that we need to focus on to strengthen our relationship even though we've been married 20 years.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Although we were in a room full of people and had the opportunity to laugh through, I was able to spend most time intimate with my husband. We really connected. I'm so thankful.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Military spouse
Thank you for giving us time to focus on our relationship and a chance for a relationship reset.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
This program provides a safe space to be vulnerable and connect with your spouse in a guided way that isn't possible on your own. After being happily married for 10 years, I still learned a lot about my wife, and I know we will strengthen our relationship even more. I strongly recommend this program for all couples and will encourage my co-workers to participate in the future.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Military
Extremely beneficial. This course allowed me to connect with my wife and gave us the opportunity to converse about the concepts/tools that will help us in the long term. I'm very excited to leave here and continue to connect with my wife. Thank you!
March 20, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Had a great time! Look forward to using the tools we were taught at home.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Military
An amazing, fun, learning experience that applies to all aspects of life!
March 20, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
This has given me more tools to improve our relationship.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Military
Very great experience - put together very well.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Veteran
This is the second retreat we have been to. We are committed to coming back with an open mind to learn more. We also brought our friends who are also first responders. We saw an opportunity to help them bring this knowledge into their marriage.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Great facilitators!
March 20, 2022
Participant - Military
Excellent program! Thank you!
March 20, 2022
Participant - Civilian
We go on these to keep our marriage strong. These types of events are supposed to be done as maintenance for relationships - not as emergency things. With that said, we are so grateful for these resources! Everyone is awesome. knowledgeable, and kind. We've been to two of these, and we've learned different things each time.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Very thought provoking. Especially appreciated the discussion about personalities.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Veteran
Thank you for all the time, tools, and experiences shared. We feel better prepared to continue growing as a couple and as parents.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Military
This opportunity came at a perfect time for our situation - much needed and appreciated!
March 20, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
I enjoyed this very much and feel I understand my wife better because of this and know how to communicate with her better.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Veteran
This program gave us the rare opportunity to connect with each other without distractions. The concepts were mapped out clearly and in a manner that feels easy to replicate at home.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Military
I appreciate the time with my wife, focusing on our relationship.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Military
This program gave us so many tools to succeed in our marriage. I'm beyond grateful for the lessons learned from [the facilitators]. I am confident in a long, happy union.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
A well thought out program geared towards the unique challenges of our communities. Efficient and effective tools provided to enhance our relationship. I can't thank you enough! All the love...
March 20, 2022
Participant - Veteran
This program provided us with an understanding of each other's personality/tendencies, more importantly, the skills and knowledge to help us better meet each other's needs. These skills help us throughout our lifetime. Thank you!
March 20, 2022
Participant - Military
Excellent materials and discussion. We enjoyed working through the prompts and learning new things about our relationship.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
This program helped us learn techniques and to stay connected. We have learned through to work through our challenges together. We are a team.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Military
Lots of good topics covered. However, I feel like they can make it more efficient. Next time, let the participants talk more. It was boring at times. Speakers at times were monotonous. Hotel, food, drinks, and childcare were excellent. Thank you!
March 20, 2022
Participant - Military
I really believe that if you post this for military and first responders on video - it would be super helpful in their marriages! But attending in-person is awesome - you guys did such outstanding work in fixing couples' problems.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Military
This was a great time to get away from kids ;o), everyday life, and focus on our relationship and have conversations without interruptions.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Civilian
Excellent relationship program. No matter if you are dating, married, just in a partnership - it provides amazing tips, tools, and knowledge to navigate life together.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Military
10/10 experience. We needed these tools in our marriage and for someone else to explain it to us as to why they are important. Encouraging us to do hard now in stead of later resonated with us. Speakers were raw, real, and relatable. Thank you!!
March 20, 2022
Participant - Civilian
We walked in strong, we walked out happier! (which is so much better)
March 20, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
We had a great weekend learning the tools to become a healthier version of ourselves. Thank you for pouring into us!
March 20, 2022
Participant - Military
It was a wonderful opportunity to focus on our relationship, to relax, and spend quality time together without all of life's distractions. I feel so positive about the future of our marriage. It was useful to learn new ways to show our love and appreciation for one another.
March 20, 2022
Participant - Civilian
Loved the entire program. This wasn't just about giving advice - the time given was to actually practice content...allowed the information to be alive, relevant, and practical.
January 09, 2022
Participant - Military
As an almost married person, this was very eye-opening and gave me and my partner a lot of opportunities to talk about each other and our future. I'm going to recommend this retreat to as many people as I can. A wonderful way to spend the weekend! Thank you RTR!!
January 09, 2022
Participant
We definitely learned new skills to use - even after 20+ years. Thank you!
January 09, 2022
Participant - Civilian
I am grateful for this opportunity.
January 09, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
This program was put together really well. It had a lot of tools for helping out in difficult times. It also brought up the importance of working in a relationship as a team and how to effectively communicate.
January 09, 2022
Participant - Military
Excellent. I wish we had received this as a pre-marital counseling session. Learned more about each other and how to communicate my needs better.
January 09, 2022
Participant - Civilian
Great speakers. Loved the couple speaker interactions + jokes. We definitely came away with a better understanding of each other's needs and wants. I think we have a good tool set to navigate in arguments and embrace our differences to come together as a couple.
January 09, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Great opportunity to revisit extremely important communication concepts, problem solving concepts, and appreciation. These are topics a lot of folks know, but due to changes in life we lose practice. It's always a work in progress, but it's important to what needs work at THIS stage in our relationship.
January 09, 2022
Participant - Military
Great program - we got a lot out of this weekend as a couple and individually.
January 09, 2022
Participant
We felt the program was presented in a strategic and purposeful way. By the end, we both feel our "tool belt" has many more tools to use and practice our skills...TOGETHER! Our experience was excellent at the venue and in the teaching time. We felt like we were underpromised to and over delivered to!
January 09, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
After 27+ years married, we were still able to grab tools to help us be married for another 37 years!
January 09, 2022
Participant - Civilian
Great program and well organized.
January 09, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
This retreat and program was carefully planned down to every detail. The speakers were friendly, knowledgeable, and relatable. Thank you!
January 09, 2022
Participant - Civilian
My wife and I have been to several marriage/couple retreats . But attending RTR was not only a different perspective but what I think made this event was the facilitators and trainers. I honestly loved it!
January 09, 2022
Participant - Military
This program exceeded our expectations. Other than learning valuable tools that will help us, it allowed us to reconnect on a new mature level in our marriage.
January 09, 2022
Participant
These tools are hard and have to be practiced and learned. But the work when you do them!
January 09, 2022
Participant - Civilian
Very helpful and practical for building relationships both in marriage as well as life.
January 09, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
I found the information explained in an easy to understand manner. This led me and my wife to have several "aha" moments. We will use the tools learned here to help us.
January 09, 2022
Participant - Military
It was very informative and fun! I learned a lot of new information to manage issues and progress my marriage in a more healthy way. If I could do this experience again, I would jump on it.
January 09, 2022
Participant - Civilian
Very good!
January 09, 2022
Participant - Military
Way more than I expected. We had our "come to Jesus" moment where I had reached the point in our relationship that I 100% was ready to just call it quits. Now we are on a path back to a successful future together.
January 09, 2022
Participant - Military
Very good reminders and a time to process things in a new light and safe space. Loved hearing where the presenters started and actually use the tips in their own relationships.
January 09, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Seeing real couples who have been through the program because of their past and working on their future with the tools they learned is awesome.
January 09, 2022
Participant - Civilian
I believe that all couples should go through this [RTR] experience.
January 09, 2022
Participant - Military
The content was excellent but the other "thoughtful" stuff is what made it exceptional. Examples include the items at the tables and the vulnerability and openness of the staff. The organization and details were phenomenal and far exceeded my expectations!
January 09, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
Helpful and practical content presented in an authentic and fun way. I felt well taken care of.
January 09, 2022
Participant - Civilian
It was great to learn all these new and healthy skills
January 09, 2022
Participant - Military
What a wonderful surprise this weekend was! I was expecting a couple of tips, more serious...the facilitators kept things light but still got points across.
January 09, 2022
Participant - Civilian
RTR was a very informative seminar led by folks that are easy to relate to.
January 09, 2022
Participant - Military
...things just made so much sense!
January 09, 2022
Participant - Civilian
We enjoyed this RTR retreat, It was different from other seminars in that they really promoted togetherness, We didn't have to break out into groups. The facilitators were relatable, and the topics were relevant. The overall energy was encouraging.
January 09, 2022
Participant - Military
This program provides the tools you need to have a successful relationship. Call it Relationship Academy!
January 09, 2022
Participant - Emergency Responder
This program and retreat is so very well planned., We had so much fun, learned new tools and refreshed our marriage.
January 09, 2022
Participant - Civilian
It is well structured and great for giving ideas. Many activities made me realize what I have been missing in my relationship.
January 09, 2022
Participant - Military
This weekend has brought things in our relationship to light. Tons of great info to use.
January 09, 2022
Participant - Civilian
This experience was truly amazing. I feel more connected with my partner after gaining the tools and knowledge of how we can do better individually and as a team.
January 09, 2022
Participant - Military
The content of this program is extremely applicable to navigating a first responder marriage. The delivery of the content made all the difference - engaging, exciting, funny, and real. Overall, a very helpful and authentic experience.
January 09, 2022
Participant - Civilian
A great experience! This event helped us keep in the right direction and open our eyes to current challenges that we were able to address and solve together! We gained renewed strength and direction.
January 09, 2022
Participant - Military
Best marriage education ever. Best trauma and relationship education ever. So enlightening.
January 09, 2022
Participant - Military
We've had counseling on a deeper level, but I appreciate this practical way of learning and applying tools to prolong our relationship and better ourselves.
January 09, 2022
Participant - Civilian
This program is very impactful. Being able to receive new knowledge to work on our relationship is amazing, and I will take this and use it from now on.
January 09, 2022
Participant - Military
RTR helped put my relationship into perspective and gave me tools to improve our weak parts. The team was relatable and everything was planned out perfectly. We are beyond thankful to have been given this gift!
January 09, 2022
Participant - Military
The program was full of love and experience to enjoy one another. Love the activities - wish there was more!
January 09, 2022
Participant - Military
Overall, this is an amazing program and an amazing experience for any couple in the first responder and military communities. I will definitely be recommending this retreat to my friends back at Fort Carson.
January 09, 2022
Participant - Military
The speakers were funny and relatable with great stories. We have been in several marriage retreats in our 15 years of marriage and still learned so much on this retreat.
November 15, 2021
Shannon H. – Civilian Partner
We had a great time learning relationship skills that I know we will use moving forward. We felt safe to learn and be vulnerable which helped us to connect.
November 15, 2021
Tyler H. - Military
Was awesome! Did not know what to expect coming into it...but VERY glad that we went through with it!
November 07, 2021
Participant - Emergency Responder
Amazing time. Refreshes the relationship.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Emergency Responder
The speakers are amazing! I feel like I'm talking to a friend during the classes. The program is so relatable and engaging that you can't help but want to get involved. The materials really helped me understand my spouse on a different level and we've known each other for more than half our lives! I have a new appreciation for him and us now.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Military
I enjoyed the program because it gave me a different perspective of what my husband needed and how to strengthen our relationship/marriage to make it another 18+ years. Would love to come back for a refresher later. :o)
November 07, 2021
Participant - Civilian
It was great to be able to have a weekend to focus on our relationship, away from kids! It was also nice to be in a safe space with fellow first responder families who understand the extra challenges we face on a daily basis.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Civilian
Great material. Great people. Great weekend.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Emergency Responder
Engaging speakers. Relevant and needed topics. Well informed. Full package.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Emergency Responder
Excellent program! Both my husband and I learned skills that we will use independently and together to build a stronger marriage and family. The facilitators were amazing; it was clear to see how committed they were and how much they cared.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Military
This was a truly wonderful program that will help us grow a stronger future together. Thank you!
November 07, 2021
Participant - Emergency Responder
I'm so grateful for this workshop. The tools learned will not only benefit my marriage but also my family for a long time.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Military
The program not only revealed trouble areas, but it also provided tools to work through those areas. At times it was really hard, but it was worth it!
November 07, 2021
Participant - Civilian
The program taught me to identify "danger zones" to relationship and how to communicate and navigate through them to a more healthy functioning marriage.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Emergency Responder
Very warm and welcoming. [The RTR team] went to great lengths so that participants could focus on the seminar.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Military
Great! The tools are VERY practical, and I feel confident we will implement them in our lives.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Civilian
Great tools and easy steps to move forward in bettering our relationship and our kids.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Military
Excellent program tailored to a specific audience.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Military
I enjoyed the variety of topics and techniques.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Emergency Responder
Completely relevant!
November 07, 2021
Participant - Emergency Responder and Veteran
Don't change anything - it was awesome!
November 07, 2021
Participant - Civilian
Being on this couple's retreat has really opened up our hearts, minds, and souls! The RTR program is a great experience and an awesome step to building a beautiful and strong marriage.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Military
This program was incredible! So much fun, very practical, and applicable, amazing amount of (free) stuff, education, and experience. It's awesome that childcare was provided so we could both participate and involve the children. And we made some great new friends!
November 07, 2021
Participant - Military
Great weekend to learn to better communicate with my husband. We learned how to approach the hard conversations. We will also be implementing what we learned with our children.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Civilian
RTR helped us see some things in our relationship what we could navigate better. My partner shared important information with me that helped me understand him better.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Military
We both felt like ti was a great opportunity to talk about concepts and skills we try to use and how we can do them so much better together. Also, was a good environment to talk about the parts of our personalities that can sometimes cause challenges for each other.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Emergency Responder
Very informative. Definitely helped me make note of aspects of my marriage that I need to work on to improve it.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Military
The program was incredible! All of the information will be helpful for our relationship and with other people. The delivery of information was fantastic. Thank you!
November 07, 2021
Participant - Emergency Responder
I have learned a lot this weekend. I'm very glad I was given the opportunity to attend this event. I have learned so much on how to speak to my partner (when situations arise).
November 07, 2021
Participant - Civilian
Had a great time retaining skills to help our marriage succeed.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Veteran
We both enjoyed this program. We learned tools to keep the relationship. I highly recommend this to any couple.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Civilian
We have been on a few weekend marriage retreats, and this has honestly been the best experience so far. Can't recommend it enough. Definitely will recommend to my platoon and company. Thank you!
November 07, 2021
Participant - Military
Relevant and practical advice and training even for those who have been married for 10+ years.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Military
We really learned a lot in a short time! I love that [the facilitators] gave real examples from their relationship. Love the childcare option - very helpful.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Civilian
Provides lots of great marriage tools - shifts perspective.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Emergency Responder
My husband and I really enjoyed the entire weekend. Everything that is covered is incredibly helpful, no matter what stage of marriage you are in. We laughed together, cried together, and enjoyed each other's company while learning about tools to help benefit us.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Civilian
My husband and I have been married for over 25 years, and we have learned a lot more about each other over this retreat weekend. The tools and skills taught will help us to understand each other better. Surprisingly, this program has helped us to better relate to one another! I highly recommend this to all couples!
November 07, 2021
Participant - Civilian
This program does a great job of giving us the tools to confront challenges head on and overcome in a positive manner. We will use this information moving forward for a healthy relationship.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Emergency Responder
It was a great experience to be able to take time out of life to focus and recenter on the goals that we have for our relationship.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Emergency Responder
Very interesting. Learned some useful tools to strengthen our marriage.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Veteran
The opportunity to engage with my partner in developing applicable skills to strengthen both marriage and parenting through this program has been unmatched.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Civilian
A great refresher of ways to communicate with your spouse for long term success.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Military
This was an incredible experience for my partner and me. We've been struggling lately and having trouble seeing a way through it. This retreat has given us tools and most importantly, HOPE. We're excited for our future for the first time in a long time.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Emergency Responder
Fantastic program. The tools and metaphors with games/tasks made it easy to understand [especially] for someone who does not communicate well. Tears were shed, difficult conversations happened and made our relationship stronger. Loved the people - they were relatable, interesting, real, and funny.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Civilian
The best thing I loved about this program was that the skills we learned here can also be applied to every other relationship in your life, not just marriage.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Veteran
There is a ton of great information delivered in a fun and non-intimidating way. It's a great way to learn about yourself.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Emergency Responder
This program was AMAZING! It taught me a lot about myself and how our personalities react toward each other. We train in our careers, but we never train in our marriage and that is what this program provides you with - relationship training!
November 07, 2021
Participant - Emergency Responder
I would recommend this retreat to anyone who wants to have a long lasting relationship.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Civilian
The most comfortable environment that helped me and my wife connect in such a deeper and more understanding way.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Military
The program gave us many different ways to initiate, engage, and navigate many different conversations, as well as an ability to have a deeper understanding of my partner.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Civilian
Very practical. A "must attend".
November 07, 2021
Participant - Emergency Responder
Fun, engaging series where I learned a lot of different techniques that I will use moving forward.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Civilian
We have done over six marriage retreats through the Army in over four different states. This is by far the best program we have seen. Loved the speakers. Keep up the good work!
November 07, 2021
Participant - Military
This gives us a chance to (1) step away from "life" and to focus on our relationship (2) understand who we are as individuals and as a team (3) understand what each of us needs from each other and ourselves.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Emergency Responder
We've done approximately eight marriage retreats thus far, and this one has been our favorite. Loved the speakers, the material, and the encouragement.
November 07, 2021
Participant - Military
Top notch conference!! Don't let the "Free Conference" let you think that it's a low rating conference. My husband and I are happily married of 22 years, and we still walked away with a lot of tools to better our relationship
August 24, 2021
Amy G.
This event has helped us learn to talk and laugh again. We have been trying so hard to maintain professional relationships, the house, raise 2 kids that we forgot how to talk. I had fun meeting my mate again and getting tools.
August 22, 2021
Participant
We attended based on friends benefitting from the program. I appreciated the time dedicated to us as a couple and validating that although we are doing a great job in a lot of areas, there are tools and opportunities to help us in the longer vision of our relationship and address the unspoken feelings.
August 22, 2021
Participant
The program offers an understanding and effective way to understand your spouse's personality and expect actions that align to their personality. It explains healthy ways to communicate that allows the couple to operate as a strong team.
August 22, 2021
Participant - Military
RTR was amazing! The science used to describe relationship issues and connection was great. The material we covered gave us new tools to navigate difficult topics within our marriage and our family.
August 22, 2021
Participant - Military
Wonderful retreat. Thank you so much for providing this incredible opportunity for our marriage.
May 16, 2021
Lencys E.
The staff was incredibly helpful and enthusiastic. Childcare was amazing, and we certainly strengthened our marriage by engaging with the programming and taking the time to focus on our relationship.
May 16, 2021
Nenea C. - Military
My husband and I needed this experience. We felt stuck not having tools to work through our road blocks. I feel with the tools for success we now have - we have changed the trajectory of our lives.
May 16, 2021
Jamie E. - Veteran
Great content presented in a very relative fun manner. Great for any stage of a relationship.
May 16, 2021
Kathy J. - Civilian Partner
I learned so much and can now look at things in a different aspect than I did before. You are all passionate with what you do and teach and that makes this experience even better. Thank you so much!
May 16, 2021
Ruby G. - Veteran
Great experience! Great tools/rules for communication. Thank you for investing in us.
May 16, 2021
Leslie B. - Civilian Partner
It was very good and interactive.
May 16, 2021
Taylor F. - Military
This was a very beneficial experience for myself as an individual and especially as a partner in a marriage. We learned valuable tools to help us move forward to an amazing larger view future.
May 16, 2021
Leslie H. - Civilian Partner
Amazing class which focused on all of the critical components of having a successful marriage. Built toolbox of marriage skills.
May 16, 2021
Bill - Emergency Responder
This program challenged me to DIG DEEP and look to be a better partner and not take so much for granted.
May 16, 2021
Steve J. - Emergency Responder
Loved the flow and all the unique applications of common ideas that are overlooked or under processed. Thank you to the team!
May 16, 2021
Sammy F - Civilian Partner
This experience was an amazing way to bond, grow, and learn with my partner. I learned more about what we both need than I knew coming in.
May 16, 2021
Linzi K. - Civilian Partner
One thing that stuck with me is that I was never taught how to have a relationship. I have learned so much about myself and my partner this weekend. I feel so lucky to be a part of this retreat. Thank you so much.
May 16, 2021
J.R. - Emergency Responder
Overall experience was great. The environment was comfortable and the tools provided were very relevant and helpful.
May 16, 2021
Lauren C. - Emergency Responder
Retreat is awesome. Very unique way of learning about myself and my marriage...this coming from someone that was very pessimistic about the whole thing to begin with.
May 16, 2021
Kody E. - Veteran
This was a good review and deep dive on what relationships are built on.
May 16, 2021
Valerie D. - Civilian Partner
I really enjoyed this experience. I believe it is a great start and gives many tools to build a better relationship. It also takes attention away from negatives so you can turn them into positives.
May 16, 2021
Mike K. - Emergency Responder
I really appreciated learning about the relationship cycle and communication danger signs. Knowing others experience these struggles as well - normalizing that and providing tools is amazing. Thank you!
May 16, 2021
Bernadette K. - Civilian Partner
I love this program. I love the tools these amazing people give people to make marriages blossom and grow and love to see coming together and being so happy! Thank you guys!!
May 16, 2021
Santiago I. - Civilian Partner
Eye opening experience. Learned a lot about myself and my partner. Look forward on the tools we learned to have a better and lasting relationship.
May 16, 2021
Frank E. - Veteran
I feel this experience has allowed a safe environment and skills to help pass onto our girls to ensure a positive healthy foundation...I'm very grateful that we had facilitators that were open and understanding to the sensitivity of situations...I feel this experience has set us up for success. Everyone was so helpful and enjoyable.
May 16, 2021
Ivy B. - Emergency Responder
Absolutely loved our time here and have already recommended it to friends. Thank you!
May 16, 2021
Tracy D. - Civilian Partner
Excellent experience! Topics were very relevant and tools to work on issues were spot on and effective.
May 16, 2021
Tyler D. - Emergency Responder
A truly quality experience which offered tools for a lifetime of marriage. I feel like my husband and I are leaving stronger and closer than we have been in years. There is understanding between us now we have never had in our 15 years together.
May 16, 2021
Eden R. - Civilian Partner
RTR was instrumental to my understanding of my relationship with my wife of 14 years. I wish that I had this way back then - it would have helped navigate troubling waters.
May 16, 2021
Neil R. - Military
Wonderful and engaging staff all around. Lauren is great at what she does. And having Kelli and Jeff with her really made the experience very well-rounded. I would *definitely* return (but hopefully wait ;o)
May 16, 2021
Sarah O. - Veteran
Being a veteran and emergency responder, I was personally able to benefit from a lot of the focused RTR material. Well written. Having responders as part of the facilitators also made it much more relatable for me.
May 16, 2021
Jeff V. - Emergency Responder
A great weekend of learning and fun. Cannot wait to become an even stronger marriage after applying tips/tools. Would recommend for any couple @ any stage of marriage.
May 16, 2021
Ryan N. - Emergency Responder
Excellent, friends, facilitators. We had a great time reconnecting with each other in a stress free environment. Thank you!
May 16, 2021
Katie M. - Military
All of the staff members were wonderful.
May 16, 2021
Kris K. - Emergency Responder
This whole weekend has been fantastic. It has given us tools to implement in our marriage families.
May 16, 2021
Danielle N. - Civilian Partner
Staff and participants all looked like that had fun. My wife and I had a blast, and obviously learned something along the way. It was a wonderful weekend.
May 16, 2021
Ryan M. - Civilian Partner
We had done the Marriage Mondays series, so some of the content was familiar, but doing it in person and having quality time with my hubby was so much better. Having a weekend away was just as awesome as the content.
May 16, 2021
Nicki M. - Military
Overall, I really enjoyed the experience and valued the time spent.
May 16, 2021
Erik S. - Emergency Responder
Thank you for doing what you do. I love my wife and appreciate any tool I can get to improve our marriage.
May 16, 2021
Daniel R. - Military
Great info/wonderful tools for life!
May 16, 2021
Tim R. - Emergency Responder
Very good practical advice. Loved the interactive exercises!
May 16, 2021
V.L. - Civilian Partner
Great talking points. Learned some things about my wife and I that made sense as to why we act and do certain things.
May 16, 2021
Derek L. - Emergency Responder
RTR is a great program. However, it feels less like a marriage retreat for good or "doing ok" couples...and more like an intervention for broken marriages. Several of the concepts were good, but felt like they didn't apply. [One activity] was spent saying "we don't have this issue...we navigated this years ago naturally!" This could however be more of an issue of expectation based on how our chaplain marketed the retreat.
May 16, 2021
Jon C. - Military
Was very helpful. Opened my eyes to things that can be used no only in my relationship but also with my daughter. Was a great weekend.
May 16, 2021
Susan T. - Civilian Partner
Great experience. Fun and energetic facilitator.
May 16, 2021
John R. - Military
The presentation and materials were spot on and very useful. The tools given during this class will help with real world issues. Great presenters as well.
May 16, 2021
Tom S. - Emergency Responder
I enjoyed all the tools they offered that we can use in our marriage. We've been married for 18 years and this was the first time I've heard most of the tools for relationships.
May 16, 2021
Kara S. - Civilian Partner
It was good to learn ways to better each other and communicate.
May 16, 2021
Odie D. - Emergency Responder
I loved having concrete steps outlined for the subjects addressed.
May 16, 2021
Rebecca S. - Civilian Partner
Wonderful! Amazing! I highly recommend for all my friends to sign up for this retreat. This has been the most engaging and fun retreat I have ever attended. I am leaving more energized and ready to tackle any challenges that the future might throw at us. I love the idea of prevention versus treating. I appreciate having new tools in my toolbox to ensure I have a long lasting marriage. I feel our marriage is stronger because of this retreat. I have no words to express how grateful I am for this opportunity. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
May 16, 2021
Ari E. - Military
Wonderful retreat. Thank you so much for providing this incredible opportunity for our marriage.
May 16, 2021
Lencys E.
The speakers were funny and relatable with great stories. We have been on several marriage retreats in our 15 years of marriage and still learned so much on this retreat. We weren't huge fans of the venue (hotel), but the program itself was phenomenal ;o)
May 16, 2021
Shannon H. - Civilian Partner
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Responding to Relationships Project Director/Director of Sustainability

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Responding To Relationships Project Community Engagement Manager

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Responding to Relationships Marriage Series and Retreat Dates

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Kick Off Event: April 14, 2023
Retreat: May 19-21, 2023
Location

Hyatt Regency Aurora Denver Conference Center
13200 East 14th Place
Aurora, CO 80011
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